Death happens every moment.....

A real story happening now in someones life...

Death not only happens when you finally leave the body...
You are Dying every moment... Every Cell is dying... 
And it can happen to any level of existence... 

She was loved and loved more than his life by her father from the childhood.  It grew more and more as she aged...

The mother was a innocent soul and was not capable to handle the outside worlds' crookedness.

This put more and more responsibility on her the elder child in that family...

As any village girl she had a dream to have a family and live with a husband who she will share her life...

But it got postponed and postponed... reasons were many...
Absolutely zero Financial situation, Over Possessiveness of the father, Insecurity of being alone of the entire family... More than all the wait for a better groom...

Pressure mounted on her.... on the father... on the family... 

Continuous fights in the house... Endless arguments... Sleepless nights... The family had lost the peace long ago... 

One day father received a call in the evening that she will not be returning to home and she is going to stay in her friends place without the mention of the where hows... They try to convince her and left it for the day without knowing .....

The next day there was no call or the girl did not turn up... On inquiry the great stories got revealed...

What they feared had happened... She got married to a boy in the registrar office that day morning.

The father and relatives rushed to the boys house and in front of the new inlaws the daughter said she is not coming home and they are married legally...

The 24 year old relationship died in front of the four hour old relationship...

When the father left the house....

His heart had long died...drying up the source of love...
The mind was dying slowly... losing itself to the shock....
The body was weakening slowly and refused to move...

But the memories refused to die and kept haunting him...
The dreams refused to die and kept his mind dancing in pain...

Luckily the breath refused to die which reminded him to keep going... for his wife and the second child..

Life Continues... with a died heart.. weak body ... dying mind... haunting memory.. scattered dreams.. 

More details poured in... The boy was in a relationship before and had a child in that...

Hopes and dreams crashed down even for the relatives with this news...

Attempts were made to persuade her in all ways... Emotional... Intellectual... 
Nothing worked... Finally Legal...

A father who had brought her up for 24 years had to request police/lawyer for help.. Now they were afraid about the future of the girl in the hands of the boy.. So legal...

In front of the police she again affirmed that she would like to live with the boy...  
The father was left with a near to death experience ...  
With Tears of Love..  
The father is still..
Running from Astrologer to Lawyer to Relatives house...
Attempting to bring her back to his home....

Without knowing... 
Long before the love in her heart had died for him....
Long before the hope in her mind had died for a better life...
Long before the faith had died that her dad would help her settle...
Long before the dreams had died for a life she wanted to live.....

Many times Parents are over Protective ... Possessive...
And in the name of doing good to the child... they harm/hart unknowingly...

Todays kids are grown..more than you think.. more than they need to be...
They have their dreams... They have their hopes...

They have their love... Not necessarily only to you....It does not matter that you have only them to love in this planet....

Wake up Parents......

Expand and invest your love in more than one...
For your good...
For your Children' good
For the good of the society....

What i am doing ?  Siting and writing this?  
I am helpless... 
Praying for the father to heal soon..  
Praying for the daughter to have a better possible life....

Jaigurudev

Comments

Unknown said…
Well expressed Prakashji ... Let's all hope for the same...

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